What causes pain, burning sensation, numbness, and mouth ulcers after sexual intercourse?

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1. Pain while having intercourse can occur due to the following reasons: injury or inflammation in the vagina, lack of lubrication due to vaginal dryness or lack of foreplay, and vaginal or pelvic infections. Firstly you need to understand that your vagina is as important as any other part of your body and you need to take proper care of it. Carefully examine it each day. Look for soreness, any abnormal discharge, or bad odor. Keep it clean and hygienic and wash it twice a day using plain lukewarm water. Do not use any irritant chemicals around it. Be gentle with yourself while masturbating. Use lots of lube while using fingers or sex toys. Explore your body. Find out where you want to be touched and caressed. Find out the pleasure zones of your body and convey it to your partner. Before penetration, a lot of arousing foreplay is necessary. It will lubricate your vagina naturally and the pain will be less uncomfortable. While having sex with your partner ask him to be gentle. Do not try to imitate porn videos that highlight rough sex as good sex. It is stupid. Ask your partner for the same. If your partner takes too much time to ejaculate and you start having pain, ask him to slow down or pull it out. You may bring him to orgasm by handjob.

2. Oral ulcers: if you are having oral ulcers after oral sex, it is a dangerous sign and may sometimes suggest a serious infection in your partner. He should have a urine examination and semen analysis done. Screening for sexually transmitted diseases should be done.

3. Sex is one of the most enjoyable things, provided that it is done with mutual consent and understanding of each other's likes and dislikes. Both partners should understand what makes them feel good and what are the areas of improvement.

I hope you find this useful. Thank you.