What are the possible causes of a low sex drive in women?

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I understand your concern.

Let me tell you very emphatically that sex is not what has been shown in porn movies or romantic novels. Sex is a combination of art and science. For novices (virgins), it can be challenging, painful, and disappointing. Before one can start enjoying sex, there are a few things that one should always know:

1. Sexual anatomy of oneself and the partner.

2. Penetration is not equal to pleasure. Penetration is the final act of lovemaking. That is the biggest mistake that males tend to make. They do not arouse their partner by foreplay. They insert it by force

3. Every person has different pleasure zones over their body. The partner should be told and encouraged to stimulate the erotic zones.

4. Sex is like an exciting conversation. It cannot be unilateral. You make the conversation interesting by telling the person your likes and dislikes, what turns you on what disgusts you. Similarly, during sex, one should guide the partner on what they like and make them uncomfortable.

I think, in your case, it was a gross mismatch between your expectations and reality. Do not worry, for most of us do not know much about it unless we do it. Fictional stories and idiotic hearsays provide all the information we get regarding sex. It would help if you conveyed your thoughts about your likes and dislikes while you are slipped under the sheets. You should help him understand your anatomy and pleasure areas. Ask him to slowly build up the lovemaking session and reassure him that orgasm is not only enjoyable. Intimacy and emotional bonding are even more vital for a satisfying sex life.

I hope this information will help.

Thank you.