Answered by Nidhi Jain

How to cope seperation from girlfriend?

Hello doctor,

I am a 28 year old man. My girlfriend left me last month and I am going through severe heart pains and anxiety. My heart pounds and beats very loudly. I cannot concentrate on anything. I am having this constant urge to call her and I am not able to control myself. Due to my constant calling, she threatened me to change her number. But, still I feel like I should call her. I feel as if my hands and legs pulling me to pick the telephone and call her. I am becoming like mad. She said I have turned psycho and she cannot trust my mental condition. I forced her to be with me and she said she hates me and threatened me. I was not like this before, rejection turned me into a psycho. We used to talk daily on phone and I was really addicted to her. Now, she informed me that she is getting married. I am going through disbelief and lot of pain. I feel as if I am useless. I feel anger. I feel guilt. I feel why did this happen with my life? I cannot sleep properly. I am currently at home after my MBA and will be joining my job in some days, but I do not feel motivated. Please help.

19 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

Can Risperidone affect a fetus during pregnancy?

Hello doctor,

I had two episodes of psychosis in the past two years. I started treatment with Risperidone and later started Asprito 5 mg. I am getting married after two months. I want to know that if I start a family, will this treatment affect my baby's health as only limited medicines are allowed during pregnancy?

18 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

What are the steps to address erectile dysfunction?

Hello doctor,

I am 23 years old and currently experiencing erectile dysfunction. I would greatly appreciate guidance on what steps to take to address this issue.

Thank you.

10 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

Me and my wife are trying to have intercourse but unable to. Any advice?

Hello doctor,

• I am a 29 year old male. My height is 5'9" and I weigh 95 kg.

• I got married in January 2014. My wife is 2 years younger than me. She comes from a very simple family and she has had no relationship before marriage.

• I am the first guy in her life. She is also the first woman in my life and both of us have never had physical relationship ever before.

• Now since January 2014, we are trying to have intercourse but unable to.

• We are wanting to have a baby now, but are really worried with the situation. My wife is very shy and does not know much about sex.

• I masturbate every day in the morning before bath on my bed with the stomach position.

• I have never masturbated with tool in hand position and I have even tried but I am not able to. I cannot ejaculate in that manner.

• The moment I lay down on stomach, I ejaculate in less than 20 seconds. I am very worried.

• My masturbation has become even more regular since I am unable to have sex with my wife.

• Also my wife is very sensitive when I touch her vagina.

• Recently she has started enjoying fingering but she resists a lot if I do it with two fingers.

• I wonder how I will ever penetrate her with such small space.

• Also we tried penetration a lot of times but the moment I come close to her I lose erection.

• We are very frustrated and are dying to have a baby.

• I am very uncomfortable with my foreskin rolled down.

• I know for penetration the head of the penis needs to be inserted but the head is very very sensitive and that is why I prefer masturbating in laying on stomach position.

Please help us. We want to have a baby now and before that we want to be sexually happy.

15 Mar 2024 - 1 min read