Patient's Query
Hi doctor,
The first time, when I was in the hostel I acted like fainting. So, they took me to the hospital, and after checking my BP, the doctor said it was low. The next day, I got a very high fever and came home. Then after some days, I went hostel as I had kidney pain. I was brought here and had a scan. The report said that I have hydronephrosis. So, I joined as a day boarder. While studying I do not understand anything. I got a zero in mathematics and I informed my mom that I cannot understand anything. My mom asked me to practice, but I am not getting interested. My exams are getting near and I do not know anything. Whenever there is an exam, I am not going to college on that day. Sometimes, when I am alone, I feel something different in my body and I feel as if I am missing the past. When I see a situational scene or a song, I feel bad. I want to make my parents happy by seeing my marks. Please suggest to me some ways interest in studies.
Hi,
Welcome to the icliniq.com.
I completely understand that you are feeling a lack of interest in studies and unable to focus on your studies.
Thank you.
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Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I cannot go to any psychiatrists, because my parents do not know any of this issue.
Hi,
Welcome back to icliniq.com.
At this point in life, your career and personality development is very important. Adolescents generally feel a communication gap with their parents; therefore sometimes it is very difficult for them to share their problems with their parents. As you had mentioned that you shared with your mom about the problem and she suggested you do more practice. This is an indication that your mother is concerned about you. If you discuss with your mom that you have consulted online and got information about your problems, then she will be able to understand the nature of your problem in a better way. You can tell her that practicing mathematics has not solved your problem and you do not feel motivated to practice due to your past illness in a hostel, etc. Might be she would take you to the doctor herself and then you can tell that you need an assessment from a clinical psychologist because they assess academic problems as well as do personality assessments. Generally, parents are very much concerned about careers and the future of their kids, even more than what their kids think. Keep in mind that sharing your problems with your parents is the best way to take steps towards the resolution because now your parents and many others would start finding the solution and you are not alone in your problems. Secondly, if you get the courage to improve your communication with your parents, then this will go to your benefit. Neglecting your concerns and not getting help will be destructive only for you and no one else would be bothered. Now, the choice is yours if you want to take steps towards resolution or neglect it.
Thank you.
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