Why I get sexually attracted to other girls?

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Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

I love a girl and she loves me a lot. She is a part of my daily life. But I like other girls sexually. I know that the girl I love is the most beautiful woman. But I look for eye candies and like to get intimated with them. Is it bad?

Answered by Arooj Najamussaqib

Education:

MS Clinical Psychology

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Ms. Arooj  Najmussaqib is a clinical psychologist and academic researcher dedicated to evidence‑based care across all age groups. She specialises in anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, phobias and relationship distress, offering CBT, solution‑focused therapy, resilience training (Fun FRIENDS) and academic counselling. As co‑author of a randomized controlled trial using Urdu interventions with Pakistani schoolchildren, she blends clinical care with culturally sensitive, research‑informed practice.

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Hi,

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Getting attracted sexually to the opposite gender is quite common. In general, men get easily attracted to sex appeal and they get involved in it. But women do not get easily attracted physically to men. For men, it is difficult to control their need to be attracted to other women. But once you are in a relationship, you need to set boundaries to save your relationship and be committed. Communicate your feelings to the girl you love. Getting attracted to other girls is quite normal and having desires of intimation should be avoided when you are in a relationship. If you can communicate with your partner, try to share your thoughts clearly and make her understand that you love her on a deeper level than others.

Thank you.

Medically reviewed by Dr. K. Shobana
Published At February 7, 2021
Reviewed At July 9, 2024

Education:

MS Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Arooj  Najmussaqib is a clinical psychologist and academic researcher dedicated to evidence‑based care across all age groups. She specialises in anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, phobias and relationship distress, offering CBT, solution‑focused therapy, resilience training (Fun FRIENDS) and academic counselling. As co‑author of a randomized controlled trial using Urdu interventions with Pakistani schoolchildren, she blends clinical care with culturally sensitive, research‑informed practice.

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BDS

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Dr. K. Shobana is a Dental Surgeon specializing in oral health and dental care. She is skilled in preventive dentistry and provides oral hygiene education. She can do restorative treatments such as fillings and crowns. She can handle periodontal problems such as gum diseases and periodontitis. She can do root canal treatment.

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Education:

MS Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Arooj  Najmussaqib is a clinical psychologist and academic researcher dedicated to evidence‑based care across all age groups. She specialises in anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, phobias and relationship distress, offering CBT, solution‑focused therapy, resilience training (Fun FRIENDS) and academic counselling. As co‑author of a randomized controlled trial using Urdu interventions with Pakistani schoolchildren, she blends clinical care with culturally sensitive, research‑informed practice.

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