How to control my fantasy about life partner?

Question

Hi doctor,

I have a lot of fantasies about my life partner. I keep thinking about this all the time. I do not care about my career. I am a 29-year-old male. I do masturbate too. Please get me some solution.

Answer 1

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

First of all, I understand your fantasy about your life partner at the age of 29. It is an important component of your career, no life without a wife. It is also important to set priorities in life. As I said partner is important but in a life scenario, you find it difficult to get a good life partner if you are not good in regard to your career. In my opinion, you can fantasize but keep it limited, so it does not affect your studies and work. In case the fantasy part is taking one or more hours in a day you need to seek professional consultation as it could be obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Thank you.