How to get into a physical relationship with my fiancé?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

Lately, I have been aroused and sexually attracted to my fiance in my head, but when we start to fool around, I feel like I do not want him to touch me. Like he is a family member and not my fiance. We have also only fooled around maybe 10 times in the past year. We have been together for two years.

Answered by Arooj Najamussaqib

Education:

MS Clinical Psychology

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Ms. Arooj  Najmussaqib is a clinical psychologist and academic researcher dedicated to evidence‑based care across all age groups. She specialises in anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, phobias and relationship distress, offering CBT, solution‑focused therapy, resilience training (Fun FRIENDS) and academic counselling. As co‑author of a randomized controlled trial using Urdu interventions with Pakistani schoolchildren, she blends clinical care with culturally sensitive, research‑informed practice.

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Hi,

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Your query shows that you are experiencing mixed kind of emotions and need some help. The reported problem is different than the one you are going through. There is more to it which needs attention. The relationship is yes, a problem at present. That may be because of what you had been dealing with. It happens when we struggle with something, it takes time to come back in a normal routine.

Also, you need to discuss openly with your partner if you have any questions in your mind about his life. Without them being cleared, your mind would be preoccupied.

Medically reviewed by Dr. Divya Banu M
Published At September 19, 2019
Reviewed At May 14, 2024

Education:

MS Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Arooj  Najmussaqib is a clinical psychologist and academic researcher dedicated to evidence‑based care across all age groups. She specialises in anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, phobias and relationship distress, offering CBT, solution‑focused therapy, resilience training (Fun FRIENDS) and academic counselling. As co‑author of a randomized controlled trial using Urdu interventions with Pakistani schoolchildren, she blends clinical care with culturally sensitive, research‑informed practice.

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BDS

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Dr. Divya Banu M is a dedicated Dental Surgeon with valuable clinical experience. She specializes in the diagnosis, prevention, and treatment of various diseases and conditions affecting the oral cavity. With a gentle and patient-centered approach, she is committed to promoting oral health and enhancing smiles through quality dental care. Her areas of expertise include restorative dentistry, preventive dental care, and cosmetic dental procedures.

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Education:

MS Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Arooj  Najmussaqib is a clinical psychologist and academic researcher dedicated to evidence‑based care across all age groups. She specialises in anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, phobias and relationship distress, offering CBT, solution‑focused therapy, resilience training (Fun FRIENDS) and academic counselling. As co‑author of a randomized controlled trial using Urdu interventions with Pakistani schoolchildren, she blends clinical care with culturally sensitive, research‑informed practice.

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