Can a person change the gender they are born with?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am a 26-year-old male. I am suffering from gender confusion. I cannot bear this pain and I have been experiencing this problem from a very little age. I have been thinking that I cannot be a boy anymore. Can I change my gender?

Thank you.

Answered by Lakhani Kiran

Education:

MSc Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Lakhani Kiran Is a Psychotherapist with 17 Years of Clinical Experience. She Completed Her Doctorate in Human Development and Family Studies in 2021, and Masters in Clinical Psychology from The Maharaja Sayajirao University of Baroda in 2006. She Works towards Patient's Well-being and Treats Her Patients with Love and Care.

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Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I read your query and understand your concern.

I have gone through what you shared and I can understand that you are feeling stuck and you do not identify with the gender you are born with. To start with, let me know what you do. What makes you think that you are a female? Since when do you feel this way? Have you ever mentioned this to anyone? When you ask me, "Can I change my gender?" Are you saying you want to change your thinking or do you want to change your gender? If you mean you want to change your gender, you will need to go through lots of sessions of psychotherapy and counseling to get confirmation from your family, doctor, and psychologist to reach a conclusion about gender change. It is not a small decision, it can alter your whole life and hence it needs assistance from many doctors.

Hope I have answered your query.

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Regards.

Answered by Lakhani Kiran
Medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team
Published At August 26, 2023
Reviewed At August 26, 2023

Education:

MSc Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Lakhani Kiran Is a Psychotherapist with 17 Years of Clinical Experience. She Completed Her Doctorate in Human Development and Family Studies in 2021, and Masters in Clinical Psychology from The Maharaja Sayajirao University of Baroda in 2006. She Works towards Patient's Well-being and Treats Her Patients with Love and Care.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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Education:

MSc Clinical Psychology

Professional Bio:

Ms. Lakhani Kiran Is a Psychotherapist with 17 Years of Clinical Experience. She Completed Her Doctorate in Human Development and Family Studies in 2021, and Masters in Clinical Psychology from The Maharaja Sayajirao University of Baroda in 2006. She Works towards Patient's Well-being and Treats Her Patients with Love and Care.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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