Q. Why cannot I converse with people efficiently?

Answered by
Dr. Hardik Tusharkant Bambhania
and medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team.
This is a premium question & answer published on Mar 29, 2016 and last reviewed on: Dec 27, 2019

Hi doctor,

I am 36 years old. I cannot communicate with other people. They say my conversation is weak, boring and serious all the time. I want to be a normal guy. Please guide.



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  • In various phases of life, it may happen that we fall into a routine and a fixed thought pattern. It may make us seem boring or serious to others.
  • However, when it comes to having a conversation, it is also important to listen the other person. It will make the conversation helpful and significant for him or her.
  • Therefore, I would suggest you to listen the other person first with all your attention and understand what he or she is conveying to you.
  • Secondly, as a person we all have different interests. You should find more interests and pursue them as your hobby or recreation. It will shape your personality and it will help you to talk a lot more when you meet your friends.
  • These two points should be immensely helpful. You are a brave person and you will certainly develop yourself more. All the best.

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