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I love a girl but get sexually attracted to other girls. Why?

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Dr. K. Shobana

Published At February 7, 2021
Reviewed AtDecember 11, 2023

Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

I love a girl and she loves me a lot. She is a part of my daily life. But I like other girls sexually. I know that the girl I love is the most beautiful woman. But I look for eye candies and like to get intimated with them. Is it bad?

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Getting attracted sexually to the opposite gender is quite common. In general, men get easily attracted to sex appeal and they get involved in it. But women do not get easily attracted physically to men. For men, it is difficult to control their need to be attracted to other women. But once you are in a relationship, you need to set boundaries to save your relationship and be committed. Communicate your feelings to the girl you love. Getting attracted to other girls is quite normal and having desires of intimation should be avoided when you are in a relationship. If you can communicate with your partner, try to share your thoughts clearly and make her understand that you love her on a deeper level than others.

Thank you.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Arooj Maqsood Ahmed Warraieh
Arooj Maqsood Ahmed Warraieh

Psychologist/ Counselor

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